My
Life So Far
My name is Tonya. I'm a 17-year-old female who had
a pretty rough life. It started at 14. I started using drugs
and started running away from home. I didn't have the best
of home life. I've never got along with my dad. I argue too
much with my mom. I have all older bros and no sisters or
younger siblings. So when I started acting out everyone looked
at me as the problem child. When I was in 7 th grade I was
raped near my middle school and no one helped. I felt helpless
and abandoned. No one believed me at first so that hurt really
bad. I acted out in hate toward everyone, especially men
at that point. My life was hard. I got kicked out of school
so that's when I started searching myself to better my education.
After a year I finally got the number for this alternative
school called Helensview and they told me to come and have
orientations. I was almost 15 by then. After I started here
I thought I would never want to leave. The teachers and staff
treated me like family. They took me under their wings and
kept reassuring me that I could do anything I put my mind
to. Almost half-way into my Freshman year I got accepted
onto student council, which plays a huge role at this school.
Don't get me wrong. I got into fights, but nothing too serious.
Then last year, my Sophomore year, I was still doing some
bad things but eventually I got tired of it and realized
that I needed and had to make a change. So I focused on school
and things to try to better my life. For instance getting
a job, falling in love with my fiancé and bettering
my relationship with my family. Things slowly but surely
got better and it seems like my life went from records reading “consistent
runaway” to no more reports of being a runaway. Now
it's my Junior year and I'm graduating this year, all thanks
to my school, Helensview.